I'm a psychoanalyst and a registered psychotherapist based in Toronto. I've been in private practice since the late 90s and I work with adult clients locally and internationally.
I am a member of the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario, a graduate of the Toronto Institute for Contemporary Psychoanalysis and hold a PhD in philosophy from the University of Toronto.
I work with people who, in spite of great difficulties, have not given up on finding meaning in their lives. I help them as they struggle with isolation, depression, anxiety, grief or early trauma. Some are trying their best to manage difficult relationships. Others are wondering about their orientation or identity--gendered, sexual, ethnic. Others still are planning the next meaningful transition in their lives.
What gives you meaning? What of all that lies ahead is genuinely freeing or just a sequel to a painful past and a limiting present?
What difficulties have you been carrying for so long they've become the uniform that wears you down every day you show up for life? What about the days when you can’t or don’t want to show up at all?
Where do you feel you belong the most and how much strength and agility do you need to get there? Might you belong the most where you already are? And if so, what do you need to do to make your environment more sustaining, more enlivening?
You've tackled these questions already. You tried the confidences with friends but there is only so much you’re comfortable sharing. Self-help hasn’t delivered on its promises and, as it turns out, cognitive therapy is the one-size-fits-all that just doesn't seem to fit you. Medications have helped numb the pain but have put the pleasure even further out of reach.
In spite of great difficulties, people still seek meaning in their lives. The basic question that meets anyone starting psychotherapy--what ails you?--often leads to one that is deeper and more compelling: what moves you? The answers to both are connected and psychotherapy offers the patience, compassion and curiosity needed to sort them.
What got you to your present are feelings and events, relationships and memories—faint or strong, good or bad, no matter. You’re not the sole author of what’s led you here but you carry it with you. Psychotherapy gives you the tools to sort it out and begin to move forward, to tell your story in your words and at your own pace. What you feel may make more sense and what you know may become more useful. You'll be more aware of your strengths and more careful about your limitations. Your ability to meet life's challenges may now grow.
Alongside my clinical work, I maintain an active research record. I published a book on Winnicott recently, following an earlier one on Deleuze and Guattari. I’ve also published a number of professional articles and reviews and given many conference papers in Canada, the US and Europe.